February 26, 2010

45 Lessons


45 lessons

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me..
It is the most-requested column I've ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone...
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19.. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words' In five years, will this matter?
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30.. Time heals almost everything.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting every where.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

February 24, 2010

share with you guys this cute picture i had received over MSN last night...
so damn cute with the hamsters and flowers...

and and!!! i am so bored!!! got no motivation to study liaoz le....
i cant wait till friday!!!
friday please hurry...

February 23, 2010


hello fella peepo!!!
yeah... i haven been bloggin for 2 weeks now.... why??


cuz im lazy... i have been uploadin the fotos in facebook and im lazy to upload in blogger again PLUS bloggger really do have problems uploadin fotos into my blog... imgaine that whole load of fotos waitin to be uploaded!!!

did quite a number of stuffs over the weeks... shall do a proper post when blogger decides to be nice to me.... *toothy grin*

im so gonna finish my exams this week!!! muahahahh!!!! BUT!!!! i have to return to school for FYP!!! *screams!!! pulls her hair out*

and i am feelin so bored right now!!!! i need some real good entertainment... till friday....

anyway, i seem to be out of focus nowadays....
i dunno wad i wanna do..
i dun have the heart to study..
studyin has become a dreaded chore for me... but i know i cant ignore this "chore" which has to be done... (-.-'")
how how how??? tell me how???

i miss you like crazy!!!

February 12, 2010

after hearin someone said something, it sets me thinkin...
thinkin that nothing perfect is gonna last...
in fact, nothing last...

just like a flawless vase...
it is so freakin fragile and much effort is needed to keep it in one whole piece...
one wrong move and it is gonna break into pieces..
budden again, who would actually bother or willing to spend so much effort in keepin it in one piece when u can find another replica or of another design...

everything is jus so freakin unpredictable...
we cant freakin predict wad is goin to happen next...
damn... if only i own Doraemon and borrow his gadget to see what my future has for me in waitin..
should i listen to my heart or to my head???

god.. how i wish i can jus live in ignorance
i am havin the urge to get out of this...
cuz i just simply cant stand it...

February 3, 2010

today is rong-er's 21st birthday!!!

our class organised a birthday party for her and gwen over at BB mac last sat.. so cute la... i mean like how many people would actually celebrate his/her 21st at mac... haha.. pics and vids are in facebook...

kuai kuai zhang da oh...

February 2, 2010

i am one sensitive girl...
although i may appear to be aloof but i am much affected by every little things...
i dun control, dun invade your privacy, dun really demand..
i think i am doin it the wrong way...
one fine day, everything might jus slipped thru the betweens of my fingers..
there are some stuffs which i cant really say...

now the more i think of it, the more i felt that i should have juz kept to my decision...

February 1, 2010

i need more time!!!

there are more things to do than the time i have...

i wanna have time to play, etc etc..
and i had received a bad news from caroline tat FYP is so gonna eat into my 7 weeks of holiday!!! BOO!!! still thought i have time to omy own stuffs durin the holiday man... damn...
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